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SJPL Picks: Tough Topics - Loss and Grief

Here is a list of books that deal with loss and grief as selected by SJPL Librarians. Books can be a wonderful tool to approach tough topics with young children who have experienced loss or trauma. Being read to and talking with adults can help children understand and express their feelings in developmentally appropriate ways.

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31 items

  • A little girl loves her mother's laugh, but after her mother dies, she fears she will never hear the laugh again.
    BookLondon : Flying Eye Books, 2023. — J PICTURE BOOK Evans
  • Benito loves Perro. But when Perro passes away, Benito is heartbroken. During the Day of the Dead celebration, he tries to understand the meaning of the flores de cempasuchil, candles, pan de muertos, photographs, and sharing memories of…
    BookNew York, NY : Little Bee Books, [2023] — J PICTURE BOOK ValdesB
  • Letting go and loss can be difficult to comprehend. Goodbye Balloon will help you understand these emotions and give you insights to deal with them.
    BookNew York : Clavis Publishing, Inc., [2023] — J PICTURE BOOK Ciccio
  • Bear died on a Friday, while sunlight speckled the grass and caterpillars nibbled leaves in the forest. Beaver and Mole, two of Bear's friends, return some of bear's belongings to his tree house, not quite understanding why their friend is…
    BookWilton, CT : Tiger Tales, 2022. — J PICTURE BOOK Chapman
  • Once, in a tiny village in India, there was a young boy who loved to paint. He lived with his grandfather, who taught him to paint with his fingers, to make paints from marigolds and brushes made from jasmine flowers. Sometimes, the…
    BookMontclair : Levine Querido, 2022. — J PICTURE BOOK Sirdeshp
  • After something bad happens, a child has trouble connecting with those around him. His loved ones try to reach out and talk to him, but he only feels like running away.
    BookToronto : Owlkids Books, [2022] — J PICTURE BOOK Howden
  • Louise and her family are sad over the loss of their beloved dog, Charlie. "Life will not be the same," Louise says, as she visits a little island that Charlie loved. But on a visit to the island after Charlie's death, something strange…
    BookNew York : Feiwel and Friends, 2021. — J PICTURE BOOK Cordell
  • A grandmother and her granddaughter explore together the secrets of nature and forge a bond that will live out forever. With Butterfly's Wings is a tender story about a girl who loses her beloved grandmother finds comfort in remembering…
    BookMadrid, Spain : Cuento de Luz SL, [2021] — J PICTURE BOOK LopezAvi
  • Lily ran and jumped and barked and whimpered and growled and wiggled and wagged and licked and snuggled. But not now. It is hard to lose a pet. There is sadness, but also hope--for a beloved pet lives on in your heart, your memory, and…
    BookNew York : Henry Hold and Company, 2020. — J PICTURE BOOK Paschkis
  • Also available as an eBook. A child asks different family members about her late grandfather and learns of his characteristics through the features he passed down to his children and grandchildren.
    BookNew York ; Boston : Little, Brown and Company, 2019. — J PICTURE BOOK Xiaojing
  • Available as an eBook. Also available in Spanish, as a print book and eBook. Suhaila's wish to know her deceased grandmother is granted when a golden ladder appears at her window and Grandma Annie invites her on a journey to the Moon,…
    BookJ PICTURE BOOK Soetoro
  • Lifetimes

    a Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children

    Mellonie, Bryan
    "Lets us explain life and death in a sensitive, caring, beautiful way. Tells us about beginnings. And about endings. And about living in between. With large, wonderful illustrations, it tells about plants. About animals. About people. It…
    BookJ 306.9 Mellonie
  • When Dinosaurs Die

    a Guide to Understanding Death

    Brown, Laurene Krasny
    Explains in simple language the feelings people may have regarding the death of a loved one and the ways to honor the memory of someone who has died.
    BookJ 155.937 Brown
  • Also available as an eBook. A simply illustrated explanation of the circle of life and death.
    BookNew York : Roaring Brook Press, 2017. — J PICTURE BOOK Cooper
  • When her dog Lulu dies, a girl grieves but then continues with her life.
    BookJ PICTURE BOOK Demas
  • A polar bear grieves over the loss of his companion, based on the real-life Gus and Ida of New York's Central Park Zoo.
    BookNew York : Atheneum Books for Young Readers, [2016] — J PICTURE BOOK Levis
  • The story of a young boy who is grieving the death of his mother, as his father helps him through the many emotions he feels in his grief.
    BookJ PICTURE BOOK Cobb
  • When they find a dead bird, a group of children bury it in the woods, sing a song to it, and put flowers on the grave.
    BookNew York, NY : Harper, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, 2016. — J PICTURE BOOK Brown
  • After safeguarding her heart in a bottle hung around her neck, a girl finds the bottle growing heavier and her interest in things around her becoming smaller.
    BookJ PICTURE BOOK Jeffers
  • Children feel the reassuring love of their parents no matter where they go or what they do.
    BookJ PICTURE BOOK Tillman