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SJPL Picks: Tough Topics - Loss and Grief

Here is a list of books that deal with loss and grief as selected by SJPL Librarians. Books can be a wonderful tool to approach tough topics with young children who have experienced loss or trauma. Being read to and talking with adults can help children understand and express their feelings in developmentally appropriate ways.

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  • A child discovers that there is no single right thing to do when someone is sad or grieving.
    Book, 2024New York : Dial Books for Young Readers, 2024. — J PICTURE BOOK Lukoff
  • Talking to a friend helps a little boy who is grieving the loss of his brother
    Book, 2025New York, New York : Nancy Paulsen Books, 2025. — J PICTURE BOOK Bonilla
  • Squirrel and his best friend, Pock the mushroom, learn about the cycle of life and death when they discover a blackbird lying still on the path.
    Book, 2025Minneapolis, MN : Gecko Press , [2025] — J PICTURE BOOK Tallec
  • Two grieving brothers visit the lake their father took them to for the first time.
    Book, 2025New York : Kokila, 2025. — J PICTURE BOOK Kang
  • A young boy reflects on the enduring presence of a loved one who has "walked on," finding comfort in memories, stories, and the love that lives on in his heart.
    Book, 2025New York : Roaring Brook Press, 2025. — J PICTURE BOOK Maillard
  • An ordinary day in an ordinary neighborhood turns out to be extraordinary in this story about new life, death, and family
    Book, 2020New York : Beach Lane Books, [2020] — J PICTURE BOOK Arnold
  • When Taylor's block castle is destroyed, all the animals think they know just what to do, but only the rabbit quietly listens to how Taylor is feeling. Although not specifically about grief, this books shares how powerful it can be to just be…
    Book, 2018New York, New York : Dial Books for Young Readers, [2018] — J PICTURE BOOK Doerrfel
  • Gisele and Papi find a way to create new memories on their first Father's Day without Mami.
    Book, 2025New York : Make Me A World, [2025] — J PICTURE BOOK Morera
  • After losing the person in his life he loves more than anything, a young child holds onto a cape as a source of comfort and strength as he navigates the sadness and joy of his memories.
    Book, 2023New York : Roaring Brook Press, 2023. — J PICTURE BOOK Johnson
  • Nana transitions from life to death through the nine levels of Mictlān, accompanied by her beloved xoloitzcuintle, Popo.
    Book, 2025Watertown, MA : Charlesbridge, [2025] — J PICTURE BOOK Lopez
  • A little girl loves her mother's laugh, but after her mother dies, she fears she will never hear the laugh again.
    Book, 2023London : Flying Eye Books, 2023. — J PICTURE BOOK Evans
  • Benito loves Perro. But when Perro passes away, Benito is heartbroken. During the Day of the Dead celebration, he tries to understand the meaning of the flores de cempasuchil, candles, pan de muertos, photographs, and sharing memories of departed…
    Book, 2023New York, NY : Little Bee Books, [2023] — J PICTURE BOOK ValdesB
  • Bear died on a Friday, while sunlight speckled the grass and caterpillars nibbled leaves in the forest. Beaver and Mole, two of Bear's friends, return some of bear's belongings to his tree house, not quite understanding why their friend is no longer…
    Book, 2022Wilton, CT : Tiger Tales, 2022. — J PICTURE BOOK Chapman
  • Once, in a tiny village in India, there was a young boy who loved to paint. He lived with his grandfather, who taught him to paint with his fingers, to make paints from marigolds and brushes made from jasmine flowers. Sometimes, the village children…
    Book, 2022Montclair : Levine Querido, 2022. — J PICTURE BOOK Sirdeshp
  • After something bad happens, a child has trouble connecting with those around him. His loved ones try to reach out and talk to him, but he only feels like running away.
    Book, 2022Toronto : Owlkids Books, [2022] — J PICTURE BOOK Howden
  • Louise and her family are sad over the loss of their beloved dog, Charlie. "Life will not be the same," Louise says, as she visits a little island that Charlie loved. But on a visit to the island after Charlie's death, something strange happens: She…
    Book, 2021New York : Feiwel and Friends, 2021. — J PICTURE BOOK Cordell
  • A grandmother and her granddaughter explore together the secrets of nature and forge a bond that will live out forever. With Butterfly's Wings is a tender story about a girl who loses her beloved grandmother finds comfort in remembering her through…
    Book, 2021Madrid, Spain : Cuento de Luz SL, [2021] — J PICTURE BOOK LopezAvi
  • Available as an eBook. Also available in Spanish, as a print book and eBook. Suhaila's wish to know her deceased grandmother is granted when a golden ladder appears at her window and Grandma Annie invites her on a journey to the Moon, where they…
    Book, J PICTURE BOOK Soetoro
  • Also available as an eBook. A simply illustrated explanation of the circle of life and death.
    Book, 2017New York : Roaring Brook Press, 2017. — J PICTURE BOOK Cooper
  • When they find a dead bird, a group of children bury it in the woods, sing a song to it, and put flowers on the grave.
    Book, 2016New York, NY : Harper, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, 2016. — J PICTURE BOOK Brown