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SJPL Recommends: Resources for Parents in talking about Race and Racism

These books and internet resources provide parents tools to examine their own biases and to build confidence to initiate and to engage in personal conversations with their children about race and racism.

San José Public Library

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  • Ideally, conscious conversations between parent and child begin during the child's youngest years, and progress in depth as family communication continues. This practical handbook stresses the importance of building a genuine, lasting,…
    BookNew York, New York : Scribner Classics, 2012. — 649.1 Faber
  • Perhaps half of the battle for parents wanting to talk with their adolescent children about racism is being able to truly listen to your child and to ensure that your child listens to you as well.
    Book306.874 Faber
  • Stamped (for Kids)

    Racism, Antiracism, and You

    Cherry-Paul, Sonja,
    A chapter book adaptation of Ibram X. Kendi's and Jason Reynolds' bestseller, Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You: A Remix of the National Book Award-winning "Stamped from the Beginning."
    BookNew York : Little, Brown and Company, 2021. — J 305.8009 CherryPa
  • Share this book with preschoolers and primary school students before progressing to deeper conversations about race and racism.
    BookJ 305.8009 Lester
  • How to Teach Kids About Racism

    a Guide on How to Educate Your Child About Diversity & Being Antiracist

    Jackson, Rebecca J.,
    Created to be suited for preschoolers through high-school aged children, th0s book provides instructions and analogies that you can use to initiate constructive dialogue.
    BookColumbus, SC : Independently published, 2020. — 155.418 Jackson
  • Parents who want to talk with preteens and teens about racism could find sharing this book to be a useful focus to begin their conversation. "Written for the young person who doesn't know how to speak up to the racist adults in their life.…
    BookMinnneapolis, Mn. : Frances Lincoln Children's Books, 2020. — J 305.8 Jewell
  • Smithsonian National Museum of African American History & Culture. Since the museum's opening in 2003, the #1 question people ask is how to talk about race. “Let’s Talk! Teaching Race in the Classroom,” has evolved into a collection of…
    Web resource
  • Race Talk and the Conspiracy of Silence

    Understanding and Facilitating Difficult Dialogues on Race

    Sue, Derald Wing
    In order to "learn to talk about race openly, honestly, and productively," the author reveals hidden "ground rules" that inhibit honest and productive dialogue about racism. "Through emotional and visceral examples, this book ... provides…
    BookHoboken, New Jersey : Wiley, [2015] — 370.117 Sue
  • This bestseller "offers a hard-hitting but user-friendly examination of race in America" that provides essential historical and sociological context of systemic racism in American society, addressing typical questions of both whites and…
    BookNew York, NY : Seal Press, 2019. — 305.8009 Oluo
  • Crucial Conversations

    Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High

    Examining your own ability as a parent to talk comfortably about difficult subjects with other people is a valuable prerequisite to examine your own attitudes before opening conversation with your child about the emotionally charged…
    Book153.6 Crucial
  • How to Have That Difficult Conversation You've Been Avoiding

    With Your Spouse, Adult Child, Family, Boss, Coworker, Friend, Parent or Someone You're Dating

    Cloud, Henry
    Encourages parents (and others) to give up their hesitation in brining up challenging topics. Written from a religious/psychological perspective. Emphasizes that "healthy confrontation can improve relationships."
    Book158.2 Cloud
  • The author' explains that while her first book, How to raise an adult, takes on the harm of helicopter parenting. [her] second book, Real American, examines the thousand small cuts racism imposes on African-Americans.
    BookNew York, New York : Henry Holt and Company, 2017. — 305.8009 LYTHCOTT Lythcott